Saturday, 15 November 2014

Captaincy Mere Haath Mein


P3G is broken and it's official now. The competition for the captaincy did it all.

Let us look at the non verbals of the housemates before ,after and during the task .

1. Dimpy
When Dimpy hears that all the housemates have to give a name for the captaincy, she starts playing with her ring,suggesting she is not happy with the idea. These kind of movements are call Manipulators.
If you see this gesture by a person( playing with wedding ring),when you mention their marriage,that means they are going through some problem in their married life.
However, this is not the case here. It is a classic use of manipulator,meaning not liking what is just being said.


2. Praneet
When Upen suggests Praneet's name for captaincy, Praneet starts fondling his beard and the neck area,which means he is calming himself down to not look very happy. This gesture is called "Self Soothing "gesture. We do this gesture,when we are trying to comfort ourselves. ( We could not capture it in lens)

3. Karishma
Karishma is not at all happy with the idea of Gautam's name being suggested. 

4. Preetam 
While discussing re-election, we can see Preetam with a stance of ownership. This is a very dominating stance and is also very confident, suggesting Preetam is very confident about what he is saying, which was, Gautam wants to be captain. 

5. Puneet
When Upen says Puneet,why didn't he give his name for captaincy,Puneet answers, he thought he was not eligible for the captaincy. The catch is, when he says that, he does a one sided shoulder shrug,meaning he doesn't believe that. We see one sided shoulder shrug in case of non surety .
One sided shoulder shrug is hard to catch on picture,therefore, we didn't include it.

6.  Praneet
Praneet just couldn't hide his smile when Diandra recommends Praneet for captaincy. He tries to conceal it, but gives a micro expression of happiness.


7. Diandra
Then it is Diandra who shows hesitation by rubbing her nose while announcing Gautam was supported by majority, for captaincy.  


She also gives a "Mouth shrug" when she names Gautam implying deep embarrassment for him.


8. Praneet 
When Praneet says Dimpy ," Actual mein ,main captain banna hi nahi chahta". He immediately retreats from his position to little bit back as if he is not the part of the statement he just said. 

He also rubs his eyes mentioning, he does not have any interest in captaincy . This behavior is called Eye blocking behavior,where we subconsciously try to shut out eyes on people, or what ever is being said , like they don't want to see the person whom they have just lied,or backing off from the person.



9. Praneet again 
Praneet was already angry with Gautam,but the anger suddenly escalates when Gautam measures the trust factor on percentage 100,90,80,70,60,50,40,30,20 to 0. 
Look at the disgust on Praneet's face, poor Preetam,he thinks Praneet is cutting joke, 


10. Dimpy
Dimpy is happy that they are fighting, we caught just a glimpse of her, trying her best to hide the smile.

11. Preetam
Preetam has been passing comments on women every now and then, however , he pretends to be funny. But the deep hatred for women was obvious when he says out loud to Dimpy,that Dimpy broke their friendship and also some comment about women " Jahan jahan gayi hai,isne gharon ko break kiya hai".
You can look the angry glare and pressed lips of Preetam just before he taunts Dimpy. 


On an average 10 mins conversation two people can send out up to 800 non verbal signals to each other. Therefore, every movement of body matters. 
There are many more twists and turns to come. 
Stay tuned. 

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