I like to party and have been to several Discotheques and Clubs. This was the first time I thought of going there few times to study the human behaviour and the categorization. So, here I found typically 5 types of girls, you would definitely find in these places.
1. No pain No gain
First kind will be of high heel girls, who you would probably pity on. Her favourite typically will be cocktail. They are so uncomfortable in their high heels, that they can barely walk, forget dancing. They wear high heels just for the fashion, because it looks "sexy".
"High heels may exaggerate the sex-specific aspects of the female walk " a University of Portsmouth research team led by psychologist Paul Morris reports in journal of Evolution and Human behaviour. Still this type will no way look sexy in the uncomfortable walk of hers.
What to do if you know her?
You tell her, to remove the shoes, as nobody is noticing any more and the party is in full swing. If you make her understand that enjoyment is more important than being uncomfortable, she will be feeling happy at the end. Give her few examples from movies that the girl removed the shoes to dance or she removes it during the party etc. and you understand it's not easy to carry heels at all.
2. Forced
The other type you would be seeing is the girl who is very quiet in the club as if she was forced to come. Ordering a vodka with soft drinks and sitting will be her first choice. Neither you see any excitement in her nor the clothes she wears will tell you she was in a mood to come. If at all people in her group tell her to dance, she remains seated with a masked smile. Being shy is very different from being quiet. If she is shy, she will take time to open up but if she is quiet because something went wrong in her personal/professional life, you can take care of that.
What to do if you know her?
Tell her, to smile. Yes, it might appear simple, but it will help. According to a research , if we smile , we start feeling happy,even if that smile is faked. The only condition is the smile should last at least 10 seconds. If you manage to make her smile, you will make her happy too.
3. Slang bang
The other typical type of girl you will find is the slang-bang cool girl. This girl in a normal routine will be seen as a simple, girl next door type but when she enters a club she will have beer and a cigarette ( if that's allowed inside), if not, you can see her outside, smoking and using slang on a louder note, pretends to be very cool.
What to do if you know her?
Tell her, to go inside, that way her noise is reduced with the high music. Other way is to tell her you have seen her relative or a close family friend in the same club, it will make her quiet because she does it on purpose to seek attention and she would not want her family to know her "other side".
4. Love shower
The next typical to feature in the list is Miss.Love Shower. She typically orders tequila shots and then gets very cosy with her boyfriend/husband/other's boyfriend etc. She is seen so much in love that she feels that she would shower all her love , right then and there itself. She is least bothered on what's going on with others in the group because she is too busy in hugging and cuddling her partner.
What to do if you know her?
Make her sit and make sure she doesn't fall over you again and again, because this behaviour is often followed by vomiting. Tell her some random stories, and be prepared to be interrupted with her side of story as well.
5. Tried before??
The last girl is Miss. Wardrobe malfunction. She will be the girl to order most likely a juice or mocktail. Her dress is seen as too tight or too loose, as if she has borrowed it from someone. Either way, she looks odd in the attire. So, you can see her adjusting her clothes during the entire party instead of enjoying, it may be the dress falling off shoulder, or a dress too short, or adjusting the dress to hide the cleavage.
What to do if you know her?
Offer her a temporary solution, like camouflaging using a hair-band, hair clip, handkerchief, tissue paper etc. If you see her really uncomfortable with a problem which can't be sorted, drop her home with a smile and a nice sentence, that you enjoyed with her company, and will do a lot more in the next time. That way , she would want to go out one more time with a nice dress ( hopefully, tried this time).
Partying and drinking is not bad at all, but a balance is required everywhere. Next time you go, look for these types and enjoy. And if you are one of these, even then, focus on enjoying. I'll be posting same article on guys as well.
Stay tuned for more.
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